與孩子玩遊戲的規則
What attitude should you play with children?
In fact, we can use some educational games or toys to understand and enhance their intelligence in this area. But don't be too hasty and follow these rules when playing games with children:
- Parents and children must maintain a good attitude (EQ) when playing games.
- Each time you play games with your children, you must specify the playing time at the very beginning of the game. And promise that during this period of time, you will not be distracted by other tasks (including cooking or answering the phone).
- It is best for parents to understand "How to play the game" in advance and start the game as quickly as possible to avoid losing the fun of the game (unless you want your child to figure out how to play the game).
- If the child fails to reach the goal, he must first be encouraged and then applauded. Even if the child just barely completes it, you need to complete the whole game with him. But this game can only be played again after a period of time.
- If the child does not abide by the rules of the game, he may be given several opportunities for correction. Otherwise, he may be told to stop the game immediately due to his failure to abide by the rules and it may affect the time of the next game with the parent. Smaller children usually need more opportunities for correction, but it must be strictly enforced, otherwise the child will regard the rules as nothing in the future.
- If the game time is slightly delayed, you don't need to care too much. After all, it is better for the child to cherish the time with you than to refuse to be with you.
- Before the game ends, specifically praise the child's talents in a specific area and give some practical suggestions to improve the relevant abilities. If possible, set a timetable for future play (practice) at the same time. It will do more with less!